In Her Own Words
About her
It’s hard to know what to write, when you have to write about yourself. Anyone else get this? Errr 1 head, 2 arms, 2 legs, own teeth.
I like all things spiritual, love the arts, languages and travel.
Communication is key, honesty, trust and respect. Firmly of the belief though that if it works, it works, and if it doesn’t then it wasn’t meant to be.
About her ideal match
Someone I can connect with in all aspects - and healthy debates about the rest.
Fun, considerate and deeply romantic, though no love bombing, fakes or time wasters.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Portsmouth (Southsea), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO4 (Southsea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Cancer; Virgo; Scorpio; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; French; German | ||
Other languages: |
French; German; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Philosophical |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility; I have a chronic illness; I have a mental condition |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Opera |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Religious; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cycling; Dance; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Pool; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Shopping |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Say Ditto: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |


