In His Own Words
About him
Im kind, caring, empathic with a good sense of humour. Have spent many years alone. I feel its now time to look for my life partner.
About his ideal match
Someone who is empathic, like me. Someone who is kind, caring and passionate about things in her life. A good sense of humour is a must as I'm a believer that laughter is the medicine for the soul.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Westcliff-on-Sea), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SS0 (Westcliff-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
32 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Gemini; Libra; Sagittarius; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Regularly; Constantly; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Pessimistic; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Short; Out of control; It has its moods; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness; I have a mental condition; I have a hearing impairment |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Meditation; Music; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer); Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Snooker; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Say Ditto: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |