In His Own Words
About him
Lead photo 14/11/2025. Others max 3 years old.
Life-long music fan. Love gigs and festivals, though haven't had the time for them until recently.
Played and sang in bands during the 80s & early 90s. Later managed bands and ran a small record label for a while. Have also done stand-up comedy, which is infinitely more scary than playing in a band!
Songwriting is a huge passion, and something I'm aiming to move into professionally. Recently retiring from office life (35 years in the City is enough!) to spread my wings finally.
I have 2 grown-up (sort of..) children who live abroad, and stay with me for periods (uni holidays etc).
Looking for a friend / gig bud. Also love pub quizzes - host a quiz night on Wednesdays in West London, which is occasionally run by one of the Chasers.
If any of this sounds vaguely interesting, and you don't mind me getting the first round in, please say hi!
About his ideal match
Can get along with and see the positives in most people. ..exept Reform/Tory/Brexit supporters and vegaphobics! Otherwise, please say hello 😊
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Harrow (Wembley), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cyprus; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Running; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Say Ditto: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |