In Her Own Words
About her
(Main photo is from summer this year) Optimistic ex-Londoner. As much as I enjoy returning to London for a night out - I consider myself lucky to enjoy the fresh air and to zip along the seafront on my trusty mountain bike.
I’m intelligent and Cool, calm and collected. Straight- talking, outgoing, empathic, generous, courageous and playful. I’m happy to take the lead sometimes but great if you are confident choosing a good date idea - and have a proper plan.
Ex Chelsea School of Art student I’m in good health, slim, compact (but not small enough for hand luggage lol) and companionable thriving on sunshine and honesty and two-way conversation in good company.
I’m a INFJ type personality - for anyone interested. Think Mandela and Luther King. The Advocate sums up an INFJ.
I enjoy having a varied social life. That said I’m also happy to stay in cosied up with a cuppa.
Pretty soon I’ll be progressing to the next level on my professional cookery course which I’m thoroughly enjoying. I also like the stimulation of theatre, film, art, hiking, cycling, comedy, radio 4, pub quizzing, socialising, dancing - from Salsa to ballet, Pilates, Yoga, swimming, sea and sunsets It’s not all based around sibilant s’s but I may well reinstate skating.
Circus skills (it is Brighton) are tempting once I have the perfect custard pie recipe.
I fervently believe life ought to get better; and that hard work and respect go a long way.
I run my own successful business - luckily this means I can be fairly flexible with time management.
I’m not big into alcohol these days and have discovered delicious alternatives. That said I’m not adverse to a glass or two of Pol Roger or Ruinart in pink for celebrating happy times.
I have two incredible grown - up daughters who live locally to me.
My favourite day would start in Italy and end in Italy with my beautiful soul mate I’m hoping to meet right here.
We could be like teenagers with money - and in the knowledge we’re heading only - in one direction…
About her ideal match
A lovely relaxed, sociable, sensitive and sensible but fun man who isn’t too pleased with himself, quietly self - assured who can laugh at himself.
Respect, reliability, and kindness are the key qualities that I am looking forward and believe make for a successful relationship.
Someone who makes the first move on here is a good start… thank you. Call it old - fashioned or shyness on my part.
Im looking for a non procrastinator and fairly directive but not authoritarian - a gentle giddy up from time to time will do. A guy with a practical sense of how things work.
Perhaps non retired, - or if so - with industrious enthusiasm for some volunteering or numerous projects on the go; and that they are equally in check with appearance, health and fitness.
A positive outlook and hope - filled guy - knowing that these later years can be the happiest, whatever it takes.
We’ll be like teenagers but this time with money forging a worthwhile and loving relationship Chatterboxes are very welcome…
Soften round the edges - certainly don’t tell your father - let the fun and romance begin.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Brighton, East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district W1B (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Polish; Swedish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Painting; Sculpting; Sewing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Dance; Hiking; Scuba diving; Swimming; Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Italian; Japanese; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Say Ditto: |
Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |